Who. Am. I? (The New Me & The Old Me)

Good morning, Troopers! 🤠❤️🤠

Here are a few words from this morning’s ponderings with PAPA. I pray He Blesses these words to minister to Y.O.U. deeply!

The pretender and the poser is the “old man“ (my old sinful nature) — it’s not who I truly am.

PAPA put a New Heart in me — His Heart — and His Heart is Righteous and Good and full of Life!

When I am living from PAPA’S Heart in me, His very very Good Fruit comes forth, because I have healthy roots. And the reason I have healthy roots is because I am grounded in Him and am living from Him.

Anytime I am not living from PAPA’S Heart, then I am living from my old man (I am pretending and posing) — and that means I’m not being real or living in PAPA’S Truth.

So here’s my question for each one of us: Which heart are you and I living from on a daily basis — the old one or the New one?

Thanks for letting me share — and keep pondering with PAPA & focusing on His KINGdom! HalleluYAH!!

(((HUGS!!!))) & SHALOM!!

Coach MelanEE


My Words of Lying & Stealing Truth (Combined w/Henry Cloud’s Video Link)

Hey there, Troopers! 🤠❤️🤠

I’m sharing a 10-minute video of Henry Cloud’s live phone call with someone who is asking how she can stop attracting narcissists. Henry’s response was just what I needed to hear and it may be what you need to hear, as well!

Here’s my favorite principle from this 10-minute video of Henry’s:

“Let the other person’s behaviors and words have ‘the weight’ that they deserve.”

In other words, I am *not* to ignore, make excuses, and/or rationalize someone else’s words and actions.

Dan Allender (someone who has taught me much about what PAPA’S True Bold Love is), has said the way to HONOR someone is to give what they do and say WEIGHT.

That is what Henry Cloud is saying—and—Henry is specifically saying I am to give the PROPER weight to their words/actions.

Here is that principle in my own words: “If I am not giving somebody’s words and actions the proper weight, then I am lying and stealing Truth.” (Ouch!)

As always, this MUST first begin in my own life (the log in my own eye) BEFORE I deal with the speck in someone else’s eye.

In closing, remember this boundary:

KING YESHUA Is GOD and I am *not* (and neither are you). I am responsible for me and you are responsible for you, and PAPA Is The One Who Sits with Ultimate Responsibility on His Throne!

HalleluYAH!!! 🎉🎉🎉

Until next time…

(((HUGS!!!))) & SHALOM!!

Coach MelanEE


Loved. You. Are!!

— Some words I shared today—they spoke powerfully to me.
I pray they do for you, as well!

It is impossible to receive True Love when all a person has consistently experienced is…


But GOD…

Is Patient.
Is Kind.
Is Tender-Hearted.
Is Long-Suffering.
Is Faithful.
Is Just.
Is Strong.
Is Powerful.
Is Forgiving.


And He will Seek you and Find you — no matter how deeply you are hidden in the recesses of your heart.

And the rest of that Good News is this…

He is already with you — even there in the deepest parts of your heart — and even if those parts of your heart do not see/hear/know Him, yet.

Loved. You. Are!!

— MelanEE Lisa Davidson


SHABBAT 6 IYAR 5782 / 7 MAY 2022

Strength Versus Weakness

Hey there, Precious Readers!

It’s been almost a hundred years since I posted (give or take a few decades!), so it’s high time I got back in the saddle and WROTE! (I’ve missed y’all!)

Here are today’s musings…

In order to talk (believe, think, and live) from a place of strength (rather than weakness), I need to learn the difference between being strong versus weak.

Deciding what I want and don’t want (and then expressing it to the appropriate person), is a most excellent start towards being strong.

Vulnerability is strength (*not* weakness).

Making excuses comes from a place of weakness.

I’m looking at my excuse-making a whole new way! HalleluYAH!!!

There’s a whole lot more to be explored in this area, but I wanted to jot down a few quick thoughts and share them with y’all—enJOY!

(((HUGS!!!))) & SHALOM!

In HIS Great Love!

Coach EE!


Investing In YourSELF

I *love* the spelling of my name! How about you? I’m not asking you about my name — I’m asking you about your name.

If you want, be thinking on how you honestly feel about your own name as you continue reading — or — stop for now and come back to this post. (Y.O.U. are way more important than this post!)

You may or may not know that I’ve been sharing my experience, strength, & hope with many women (and some men, too!) for over 2 decades, and although I’ve learned a lot, there’s a whole lot I don’t know.

BTW — one of my favorite new sayings is: “I don’t know what I don’t know.” And I’ve heard it from so many people in the last nine months, that I honestly don’t know who originally said it! (If you know, feel free to put it in the comments — thanks!)

Although it’s been less than a year since I began to intensely study John C. Maxwell’s teachings on leadership and personal growth, I’ve learned a ton, including hearing the earlier statement of not knowing what I don’t know.

Prior to joining the John Maxwell Team Mentoring Program, I had begun learning about HeartSync in 2016, which was founded by Andrew Miller, LCSW. (Look for more writings about his amazing work in the future!) Off-n-on over the following year, I worked on increasing my personal joy capacity through HeartSync’s phenomenal proprietary process. Then later in 2017, I joined the mentoring program run by Andy, his wife, Lisa, and another amazing lady, Cheri — yay!

By now you may be wondering, “What does any of this have to do with whether I like my own name or not?” Great question! Thank you for asking and keep on reading!

During the amazing process of cooperating with PAPA to get rid of the toxic beliefs I held about Him and myself, and then receiving from Him The Truth of HIS Great Love, I began to literally see myself differently, because I began to think differently about myself. (BTW — a powerful thinker and a dear mentor and friend, Bob Hamp, has a ministry called “Think Differently.” I mention it here to not only introduce you to Bob (he and his lovely bride, Polly, are truly PHENOMENAL!), but also to communicate how much I trust and respect both Bob & Andy’s teachings. Of course, they have their own styles and modalities, but lots of similiarities in many ways. I look forward to the day when they can meet one another!)

Now, to get back on track…

As I began to think differently about myself, I began to see myself in a way I’d not been able to before (that’s what happens when the toxic pollution distorting my vision gets cleared out). As I began to grow in my joy capacity in every part of my heart (a.k.a., my brain), I began to see “ME” — the me PAPA Created — His Beautiful Brave Beloved Warrior Princess KINGdom Daughter CowGirl! OORAH! The me who loves my name and delights in seeing my name spelled MelanEE! Or just Coach EE! The me who, because of what PAPA has done in my life, is more than capable of helping other women leaders shatter shame and strengthen SHALOM! The me who has become a more confident and competent leader — and who wants to help as many people as possible to GROW in both their personal lives and in leadership.

So… how are you feeling about your name? How are you feeling about yourself? (Did you think I’d forgotten about you? No way! I truly care about you, Precious Leader — and no, that’s *not* a typo.)

Whether you think of yourself as a leader or not, please know this — PAPA Created people to lead (whether they’re actually leading or following, the leadership principles remain the same). How much you develop your leadership abilities — or to play-off of one of John Maxwell’s book titles — how much you LeaderSHIFT — is up to you. There are people just like me all over the world who are ready and able to help you grow.

So… what say you, Precious Leader? Are you ready to exponentially grow in knowing who you truly are? Are you ready to take action by investing in yourself?

If you answered yes to both of those questions, then reach out — let’s connect!

Let’s get to “the other side,” and let’s do it TOGETHER!

(((HUGS!!!))) & SHALOM!
Coach EE!


Hey there, Precious Reader!

I’m writing this between sessions on an online training to let you know an IMPORTANT update–I have a NEW acronym! (LOL!) It’s one I’ve started using on a regular basis, and it’s R.E.S.I.N! This is what it stands for:


That acronym sums up what my FOCUS is and I look forward to seeing MUCH FRUIT come from it!

Alright–my alarm is ringing, so I must dash for now!

I’ll see you on the other side!



Four Pieces Of EXCITING News!

Howdy, Amazing Reader!

I’m looking forward to contacting you soon–BY PHONE! Yes, the “old-fashioned” way of communicating. (Of course, face-to-face is truly the oldest way, but for now, it will need to be by phone. Hopefully in-person, though, too!)

So… in this post all I’m sharing is this: I have four pieces of EXCITING news to share with you, and PAPA Willing, I will be contacting you by phone (if I have your number), or online if I don’t.

KING YESHUA IS ON THE MOVE! And His Moves are ALWAYS adventurous and thrilling!

Look for my call (or online message) in the next few weeks–I look forward to connecting or re-connecting with YOU!


Writing My Memoir!

Hello there, Precious Readers!

I have some amazingly phenomenal news to share with you!

At 1930 on 13 NOV 2019, I emailed the manuscript of my memoir to my publisher!

WOOHOO!!!!!!! 🎉🎉🎉

It took me about one year to write it (once I actually started writing it! LOL!), although I had started writing it numerous times for well over a decade.

My outstanding support team has been phenomenal–and that’s an understatement!

When I connect with my publisher next week, I will ask her if I may post parts of my book here, so be on the lookout!

Last, but not least, here’s an important reminder from your friendly neighborhood writer and speaker:

Remember at all times–Whose you are and who you are!


In HIS Great Love!



Radio Interview: Remnant Road

Yo, Readers!

I’m excited to share about the fantastic opportunity PAPA has Blessed me with! He’s Gifted me with the opportunity to be interviewed on *live* international radio on MON 23 JUL 2018! Specifically, the Remnant Road program on Hebrew Nation Radio, co-hosted by Al McCarn, Barry Phillips, Hanoch Young, and my CuzMikell Clayton!

I’m scheduled to be interviewed from 12-1 (eastern), and if you’re able to join-in live, that would be phenomenal! (If not, no worries—it will be available on podcast.)

Here’s the link for more information! https://thebarkingfox.com/2018/07/19/celebrating-his-great-love/


In HIS Great Love!


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